top of page

Finding The Right Fit For You

The internet allows us to have an abundance of information on a wide range of topics. Sometimes this can be extremely helpful. Other times it can be overwhelming. When surfing the internet, searching for your perfect match, you'll find there's so much out there. How do you know where to start? I tried to break it down into terms I often use to help you begin to sort things out.

More often than not, you will come across one of three words used when talking about professional companions. Those are an escort, sex worker, or provider. All of these are very broad in meaning. Before the internet, our society had other terms that were used more often and helped you get a sense of the overall experience you were entering. Words like call girl, streetwalker, carpet walker, or high-end escort were more common. Not vastly differently yet, they had some common meaning to them that people often understood. By attempting to navigate the internet and avoid legal issues, things changed. So how do you know the difference?

Let me start by saying the following information is my perspective. The answer to that question can vary greatly depending on who you ask. I don't think it's ever reasonable to broad-stroke or label anyone. However, working with numerous people over the years. I have noticed three main styles of escorting that tend to ring true most of the time. Keep in mind these are terms I use and am sharing simply to help enlighten. These aren't terms widely used or most people identify. I have labeled these styles thieves, hustlers, and companions. I use these terms not with a sense of judgment but more to be able to identify a situation.

Let's start with the obvious, The Thief. You won't find these individuals going out of their way to set up much of an online presence. Their preference is to stay under the radar. Places like Las Vegas come to mind when talking about this sort of person. This is the type of person you meet at a bar who suddenly shows a great deal of interest in getting to know you over a drink. Then another drink and another drink. You might even notice they don't seem to be getting tipsy. That is because they typically know how to throw the drink away when you're not looking. Or perhaps, more disgusting, they put something in your glass. The intention is typically to convince you to hand over an obscene amount of money in your inebriated state. Or to get back to your room and rob you all together once you've passed out. Luckily, in my eyes, this is a minority and not someone you're likely to encounter.

Next, let's talk about, The Hustler. Your first thought maybe that I'm referring to someone who wants to hustle you. That isn't the case at all. When I say hustler, I refer more to the style. More often than not, this is someone who is solely about money. They screen their clients but will rarely say no to an appointment. They may have a weekly or monthly quota in terms of money that they try to hit. Look at it a bit like a stripper. She doesn't sit and talk to you for free. She has a set amount of time to make as much money as possible. This style doesn't mean they aren't good at what they do, or you won't have a good time. It is the goal for you to have fun so that you will extend your time or repeat. They may be a bit cold or not come off very personable. Their style is a performance they have perfected, and most clients don't even realize it's an act. But make no mistake about it. Every word they use, every move they make is intended to kill time or extract more money. That's just business. They can quickly turn in the perfect "yes" woman, nymph, victim, or playful partner. A hustler is an expert at reading people and knowing what you need at that moment. If they sense they are unable to do this. Very often, they will then mention that they have a hot friend. A friend that can either join you or they think you might like to see. It's a skillful way to keep you coming back or leave you wanting more. You may find a hustler is more focused on deposits, you being prompt, not asking questions, etc. After all, time is money.

Again, I'm not saying this is good or bad. It's simply a style. Some ladies even practice different styles depending on the situation or over a long career. Having this information helps you understand the type of companion that might be best for you. Suppose you are someone who seeks a more extended engagement and more intimate connection. Then someone hustling to make the most may not be the best fit for you. But if you're looking for a wild and crazy hookup, it may be just what the doctor ordered.

Finally, let's talk, The Companion, much like the term I've chosen. A companion is a bit more focused on the type of person they will be seeing, so they know you are a good fit for them as well. They are often very nurturing people by nature. A companion may find a fast pace and varied encounters a bit draining. On initial contact, the screening and introduction may feel the same. People want to feel safe, so they have to get all that first-time particulars out of the way. However, once you've established yourself, you will find them more personable and less of an act. Companions tend to see escorting as an art form. For them, it's essential to take in who you are as a person, be present and attentive on many levels. One way to note a companion ahead of time is her online presence. They will tend to share a lot more about themselves online. It helps if you get a sense that they want you to know more about them personally. (within boundaries, of course) If you do enough homework. You will notice a difference in language. Some are somewhat sterile or generic, where the companion has taken time to inject as much of themselves as possible into their online content. It's typically an extension of the kindness and consideration they show when meeting in person.

These paragraphs are just a brief overview. Styles and people's character can have so many variables. I never advise simply going off photos, reviews, or the number of followers. All three of these things can be manipulated or are subjective. They can provide a sense of validation. But it's not a guarantee by any means. I believe everyone has a solid amount of intuition or gut instinct, yes, even men. If you find you're having doubts, then follow that feeling. There are so many options, and it can be confusing. That's why it's always best to do some homework beforehand. Dong so really ups the odds on you having a fabulous time. Hopefully, this information will be of some assistance with that.


Recent Posts

See All


bottom of page