The beauty is there is no right or wrong answer. The meaning of companionship is unique to the individual. Most people start their search by looking at what the other person should look like. I see it from a different perspective. Look at yourself first, from the inside.
You may wonder why. You’re trying to find someone to add to my life. You need to know who they are.
This is true. How do you know who to bring into your life if you don’t look at what your life needs first?
Often in life we tend to look at things as fixed. You decide the type of foods you like, favorite drink and how a partner should appear. Yet, the only constant is change. Situations in life change. Stages of life come and go. Along the path there is a space to fill. Much like life itself that space changes.
You may have a full life with work and all the things you have to do in a day. Your desire maybe a companion to help you decompress. Taking some time to laugh and be distracted from your routine is just what you need to recharge. For you a fun and physical connection is the ticket.
On another day you may desire something more on the kinky side. Fear of being embarrassed or not having a partner to share that with stands in your way. Finding someone like-minded is a perfect way to satisfy that corner of your world.
Then there are the times in life when you feel more of an emotional void. You might be going through a break up or loss of a loved one. Life happens, sometimes you just want to be heard and connect with another human being. In this space having someone compassionate and able to listen has more meaning. Being able to share with someone who may have had the same experience, or you can simply express yourself with freely has great value.
You may relate to all of these depending on the day. There’s nothing wrong with that. There's rewards for being able to flow with life. Very often we don’t let ourselves just be okay in the space we’re in. That is what companionship is all about. Finding the right someone who can accompany you in that space. If you’re lucky you might find the total package who is well versed in most areas. Professional companions have an enhanced ability to connect and meet you in the space you're in at even given time.
Find someone suited to your uniqueness. The results will be better than you imagined.